Editor:
Dave Uphoff
I spent this past weekend watching my favorite golf tournament, The
British Open, which was held this year near the Beatles' hometown of
Liverpool, England. To ABC television's credit, they did not overpower
the televised tournament with The Beatles music or an ad nauseum
history of the Beatles. Instead, ABC concentrated on bringing some of
the best golf ever witnessed by this viewer. And the star of the show,
of course, was Tiger Woods.Even
though Tiger is one of the longest hitters in golf, he used his brains
instead of brawn by using long irons rather than his driver when teeing
off. By doing this he avoided the many pot bunkers lining the landing
area of those who chose to use a driver. In the end, it was Tiger's
accuracy and putting that won the tournament and not his length. This
feat showed that he is the number one golfer in the world by any
standard of measurement. While
the drama built up during the last few holes to see if Woods could
withstand the challenge of his closet competitor, Chris DeMarco, the
final drama came after he sank his final putt on the 18th green to win
his second consecutive British Open and his third overall. After
letting out a yell and then hugging his caddy, Steve Williams, he burst
into uncontrollable tears. The whole world watched as he then hugged
his wife while sobbing with a mixture of joy and sadness. The death of
his father and closest friend, Earl Woods, had finally hit home. His
father died last May 3rd and Woods did not play in any tournaments
until the U.S. Open in the middle of June - and for the first time he
failed to make the cut in a major tournament. The
victory in the British Open not only reaffirmed his status as the
number one player in the world but it also relieved the pressure he was
under the past 2 months and gave him closure with his father's death. There
have been many other stirring and emotional moments in sports history.
Probably the most famous was a dying Lou Gehrig's final speech at
Yankee Stadium in 1941 when he told a packed stadium that "he
considered himself the luckiest guy on the face of the earth." Babe
Ruths's final appearance at Yankee Stadium in 1948 was also a sad
occasion as the Babe was dying of cancer and could hardly talk. Neither
hero shed a tear or showed the kind of emotion exhibited by Tiger after
his British Open victory.
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Years
ago it was considered cowardly for a man to show tears and if you did,
you paid the price. Consider Edwin Muskie who was running for president
in the Democratic primary in 1972. At a news conference he became so
upset about a reporter's insensitive comment about his wife that he
broke into tears. That ended Muskie's career. But that was then and
this is now. Thankfully, we
now realize the importance of not blocking our emotions and weeping is
considered a healthy release for those who are suffering from grief or
depression. Apparently, the Pantagraph doesn't understand this as they
reported Woods victory with the unsympathetic headline, "Woods Wins
Then Wails", while the New York Times carried a more sedate headline
with "Woods Reins in Game, and Frees Up His Emotions". Obviously, us
midwesterners don't take kindly to a softy! Tiger's
grief over his father's death is understandable. Not many can say that
their father is also their best friend nor has many fathers done as
much for their son as Earl Woods. I salute Tiger Woods for
his great British Open victory and for his unabashed display of
emotions that showed the depth of his love for his father and the grief
he has experienced in his loss. It shows that even those with super
human skills have the same emotions and cares as everyone else. So
Tiger, keep up the great golf. I just want you to know that I am
capable of weeping also, especially after playing a round of golf.
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